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Firstly…what complete and utter bullshit! If he did it just to hurt me then when he got back from trying to get jiggy with some sad ugly fuck that he met on Facebook dating he would have told me! That would have hurt me and it would have proven to me that he actually did it for that reason! Telling me that I'm paranoid and that he hadn't betrayed with anyone me told me that he did it because he wanted to!

Needles to say that I've screenshot all of her messages! 😂😂😂

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I am such a fukkin idiot!

After reminiscing about the past he told me that he had always been in love with me and then sent me a dick pic!

I refused and said that he should have given it to me when I asked as now I know he's deleted any evidence!

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One of them is telling porkies and my husband says that he is telling the truth which I doubt very much!

Then he tells me that he had always been in love with me and wanted me to leave my husband and go and live with him up north!?

He point blank refused so that told me that she was on his Instagram!

Why do I (45, male) feel like I'm crushing on a girl (19, female)?

Her account of events are totally different to what my husband told me but despite everything she has absolutely no blame in the situation!

Any accent above London is a no go for me!

I then found out her name which he had tried so hard to keep me from finding out and now I know why!!

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Telling me that he was going out for a few drinks with his mate but at 07.30am I couldn't get hold of him!

At that point I should have told him to fukk off and block him on all my social media..why I didn't I still can't explain to this day! It's like I was still just seeing the lonely sad 16yr old that I felt sorry for and still couldn't believe that he had sent me a picture of his ugly dick!

How did it go from reminiscing about 40yrs ago as good friends to then getting a picture of his fukkin takle!?

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I was talking to a couple of guys online because I felt unloved and neglected by my husband.

I thought that it was fair enough as I didn't want my husband worrying about him!

Absolutely wrong fukkin move dumbass!

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HOW THE ACTUAL FUCK DID IT ESCALATE TO THAT!?

The heartbreak and loss that I feel now literally has destroyed my entire world!

I didn't see it as cheating and I didn't know how much that it would hurt my husband!

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

I live in southern England and I don't do the north!

He gave me everything that I needed to know when I found out that he was on Instagram!

My husband then had the cheek to ask me why I hadn't defended him when she said that!

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Of course he denied everything but when you have been married to someone for over 20yrs you instinctively know when they are bullshitting you!

The absolutely hilarious icing on the cake is despite her not being drop dead gorgeous as I'd imagined the whole time, but when I actually found her and saw her picture It made me feel like a super model!

He said that he did it just to get back at me and hurt me for talking to men online and it was all my fault!

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Despite his telling me to stop talking to men online (Facebook friends) I then started talking to an American friend who made me laugh, knew that I was married and never ever once did we have any sexual desire or talk about it!

10 minutes later he gave me his phone and said here you are I've got nothing to hide!

Why would she need to lie about anything?

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If she hadn't have fukked him off then he admitted that he probably would have seen her again!

It absolutely broke his heart and he said that I was going behind his back by talking to these guys and not telling him.

We were just having a laugh!

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A year down the line my loyal, faithful and trustworthy husband cheated on me with the ugliest pig that you could ever fukk!

I nearly fell off my chair! 😳😳

We were FRIENDS!!

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Also it made me feel like he was fighting for me (not that he would ever have to) and he was showing me some attention (even though it was the wrong kind of attention!)

At that point I just wanted any attention that I could get from my husband!

Last laugh is that she said from the moment she met him she knew he wasn't her type and also said that he was shit in bed! 😂😂

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Never anything sexual and I had absolutely no intention of leaving my husband for any of them at all!

My husband thought that we were getting to close (despite never having mentioned sex or leaving my husband) so he blocked him from all of my social media!

I went on there solely to try and find the woman and when I asked him about having an Instagram account he denied it despite me showing him his account!

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I asked him to install the app in front of me which he did but he was sweating like a nun in a porn shop when I asked him to give me his phone!

Where the fuck did that come from!?

I thought that I could handle the situation by trying to take it down a notch and remind him that we were just good friends.. but obviously I couldn't and it didn't happen!

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If I could turn back the hands of time then I would in a heartbeat!

I had absolutely no idea how to handle the situation so I tried to brush it off and made a joke out of it!

His cover was blown when I asked him to install the Instagram app (he thought that by deleting the app and reinstalling it when he wanted to send or receive messages) would cover his ass!

I was absolutely over the moon that she was the only one who answered his dating messages!

That night when he was asleep I checked his Instagram and he had moved her to the “don't accept any notifications from this person”

I used to have the most loyal..trustworthy and loving husband in the world until I totally fukked everything up!

One of the guys was someone that I knew from 15yrs ago and we were good friends!

I have lost the air that keeps me breathing!

Why is it always me!?

Jealousy made me feel wanted loved by him!

Of course I messaged her and she actually answered me!

At that point I should have told my husband but like a fucking idiot I carried on talking to him still trying to brush off the ugly dick pic and trying to bring it back down to the old times when we were just friends!

He kept denying it because he thought that he could carry on seeing her behind my back if I didn't know about her!

After many long arguments and endless efforts by me questioning him about her (which he gave me absolutely no information on except her name, he finally admitted it to because she told him that he wasn't her type and wasn't interested in seeing him again!)

I instinctively knew that he had betrayed me and I could feel it somehow!

What a dumbass!

Which it was doing until I installed Instagram and saw his account?

My husband found everything on my laptop (which I think secretly deep down was hoping that would just to get me out of a situation where I had no idea what to do!)